Words can bring together...

Words can bring together...
Moncy Varghese

Monday, January 23, 2012

Dr.Sukumar Azhikod


പ്രഭാഷണ കലയുടെ വിന്ധ്യനും ഹിമാലയവും ഒന്നിച്ചപ്പോള്‍....







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അബ്ദു സമദ്‌ സമദാനി സാഹിബ്‌ പറഞ്ഞത് എത്ര ശരിയാണ്...

എന്നെ ഏറ്റവും കൂടുതല്‍ സ്വാധീനിച്ച പണ്ഡിതനും വാഗ്മിയുമാണ് അഴികോട് മാഷ്‌..
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"വാക്കുകള്‍ ആണ് എന്റെ പട്ടാളം"
അഴികോട് മാഷ്‌ പ്രസംഗ പരിശീലന കളരിയില്‍



പ്രഭാഷണ കലയുടെ ആചാര്യന്‍ Dr.സുകുമാര്‍ അഴികോട്

Monday, December 5, 2011

Moncy Varghese (Trainer): Dreams into Action

Moncy Varghese (Trainer): Dreams into Action: Put Your Dreams Into Action. Powerful Dreams Inspire Powerful Action. When You Can Taste, Smell, and Touch Your Dream, You Can Enroll the ...


Receives memento from the Regency Group of Companies, Dubai 

Dreams into Action


Put Your Dreams Into Action

Powerful Dreams Inspire Powerful Action.

When You Can Taste, Smell, and Touch Your Dream, You Can Enroll the World.
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.
Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature.
- Helen Keller

Every day is a day to take action. Whatever your choices, take action on those
choices. Taking no action is equally a choice, just not a choice made from
awareness. Make conscious choices, and take action on those choices - Today.

Today is your day to Spread Wing and Soar.
Fly Life on Free Wings, and Sing to its Glory.
Like a bird in flight, your life can soar above the troubles of the world. Breathe
deep, choose, and break the shackles of your past. Don’t wait. Do it today - and
again tomorrow.

Act with Bold Courage - Standing in the inspiring vision of my future, I boldly take every step - large and small - with courage and intent.

Today is your day.

What are you going to do today that you will thank yourself for tomorrow?

Friday, December 2, 2011

Moncy Varghese (Trainer): Personality Development Tips

Moncy Varghese (Trainer): Personality Development Tips: Personality Development Tips Prepared by Moncy Varghese(Chief Coach,TOP Academy, Kochi) Know about yourself: You are a product, know ho...

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Personality Development Tips


Personality Development Tips

Prepared by Moncy Varghese(Chief Coach,TOP Academy, Kochi)

Know about yourself:

You are a product, know how to sell yourself in the market.
Tell your features to the customer.
Know about your strengths and weaknesses.

STRENGTHS:

• Something which you want to do.
• Some thing which gives satisfaction.
• Something you learn very fast - Natural learning.
• Something that gives a feeling of Excellence / Achievement
• Something you consistently want to know more and excel or improve in it .

How To Find Your Strengths:

• Find what you enjoy doing.
• Believe you did well.
• Feel satisfaction.
• Take pride.

How To Identify Your Strengths:

Answer these questions to identify your strengths -
• How did I initially become involved?
• What did I do?
• How did I do it?
• What was especially enjoyable about doing it?

How To Develop Your Strengths:

• Choose one strength
• Excel in it

WEAKNESSES:

• Weakness is what you do not do well.
• Things you feel defensive about-you give excuses.
• You try hard to correct any behavior / skill.
• You have to work hard to learn.
• Feel loss of confidence and exhaustion in doing a thing.

How To Identify Your Weaknesses:

Answer these questions to identify your weaknesses –
• How long it took me to learn?
• What I did not like?
• Why I did not like it?
• How I felt after doing it?

How To Manage Your Weakness:

• Stop getting angry.
• Delegate your work to someone else if you can not do it.
• Think of the alternative ( if you are scared of meeting people take a career in finance , computer programming then on sales /marketing).
• Allow your strengths to overpower your weakness.
Do not spend time in making your weaknesses as strengths, just try to remove them.

SELF ESTEEM is -

  • Your own image in your eyes.
  • What you think about yourself.
  • Every individual is unique and has strengths and weaknesses
    • Awake and recognize your strengths. Have a positive self esteem about yourself.
  • Positive Self Esteem leads to Self confidence - to do any thing or everything you want to do.

Signs Of Low Self Esteem:

• Self depreciating statements.
• Negative self critical dialogue.
• Feeling inferior / inadequate.
• Comparing yourself with others.
• Giving negative mental messages (I am always making mistakes).
• Feeling uncomfortable in social situations and with friends.
• Need for approval -
. Seeking recognition from others.
. Depending on other’s opinion.
. Expecting mercy / sympathy to feel good.

Signs Of High Self Esteem:

• Proactive / positive attitude.
• Not scared of making mistakes.
• Ready to take risks.
• Focusing on your strengths.
• Beliefs and attitudes -
• You need not be perfect.
• Do not compare with others-you are unique.

Self Esteem leads to Assertiveness – the purpose is to:

• Maintain respect for self and other’s needs and rights.
• Keep communication lines open.
• Achieve goals.

Engage and develop human relationship.

Balance Your Rights and Rights Of Others:
If you only think of your rights you are aggressive.
If you think of only others’ rights you are nonassertive.

Assertiveness - the ability to express your thoughts and feelings in a way that clearly states your needs and keeps the lines of communication open with the other.
Be assertive in following situations:
• When you want/ do not want something
• When you are hurt
• When you are happy / angry
• When you want to give feedback
• In the face of criticism
• When you want to negotiate

You are what you always think about yourself!!!!


RIGHTS AND RESPONSIBILITIES -

Every human has certain rights and along with the rights come responsibilities .

Right: To Be Treated With Respect.
Responsibility: To Respect The Rights Of Others.

Right: To Express Opinions And Feelings.
Responsibility: To Welcome The Opinions And Feelings Of Others.

Right: To Set Goals.
Responsibility: Help Others To Work To Their Goals And Objectives.

Right: To Refuse A Request Or Say ‘No’.
Responsibility : To Encourage Others To Use Their Time The Way That They Want.

Right: To Ask For What I Want.
Responsibility: To Encourage Others To Fulfill Their Needs.

Right: To Make Mistakes.
Responsibility: To Help Others Learn Through Their Mistakes So That They Can Grow.

Right: To Get What I Pay For.
Responsibility: To Give Best Value And Service For The Money And Rewards I Receive From Others.

Right: To Change My Mind.
Responsibility: To Help Others Reach Conclusions About Their Experiences Of The World.

Right: To Decide Whether Or Not To Assert Myself.
Responsibility: To Allow Others The Freedom To Choose How They Behave.



Thursday, November 24, 2011

Moncy Varghese (Trainer): How to become a MONEY MAGNET? (Law of Attraction...

Moncy Varghese (Trainer): How to become a MONEY MAGNET? (Law of Attraction): Effective tools to attract money!!! Do you intend to become an irresistible MONEY MAGNET?

How to become a MONEY MAGNET? (Law of Attraction)


Effective tools to attract money!!!

Do you intend to become an irresistible MONEY MAGNET?

Then, get busy activating the universal LAW OF ATTRACTION

Here are some steps you can take right away.
1. Eliminate from your mind any beliefs in lack of money

2. Eliminate from your mind the belief that "it is hard to make money"

3. Eliminate from your mind the belief that it is only possible to make money through a hard, painful, limiting job

4. Eliminate from your mind any belief in debt. This insidious belief will keep you in debt

5. Eliminate from your mind any belief in LOSS. This destructive belief will make you lose what little you may have

6. Eliminate from your mind limiting thoughts such as "It is too expensive", "I cannot afford it", "There is never enough","I never have enough"

7. Open your mind to receive money from any source and any direction, even in the most unexpected ways

8. Start to appreciate, love and even bless whatever amount of
money you now have. Say to yourself "Money is good. Money is wonderful. I love money and money loves me". This will signal your mind and the universe to send you even more money

9. Eliminate from your mind any resentment, condemnation or
criticism of rich people. These thoughts will keep money away from you

10. Appreciate all the wealth and riches surrounding you.
Appreciate the riches and wealth of others. Use the HUNA technique and whenever you see something you desire for yourself bless it and also bless its owner.

11. Always be thankful and grateful for whatever money you have.
These attitudes will attract more money into your life and multiply it

12. Appreciate and even bless every rupee (of any denomination) or any coins you come in contact with

13. Love yourself and always put yourself first.

14. Remember to always pay yourself first. Pay your creditors AFTER you have paid yourself. This behavior will send a clear signal to your Subconscious mind and the entire universe that you always come first and that you deserve wealth

15. Believe you were born to win, you were born to be rich and
that you deserve to be wealthy simply because you were born on this
planet. That's reason enough for you to have wealth

16. Take some time during the day and imagine how you will use
the wealth you have. In your imagination, buy that house, that car, those
things you desire. Let go of the thought that "I cannot afford it"

17. Instead of worrying about any money problems, do your best
to WORRY about all the money coming your way and how in the world you
are going to spend it to make you and others happy. Really WORRY about it

18. Do your best to start ACTING AS IF you are already rich, a
millionaire. Constantly ask yourself "How/what would a millionaire think or
speak in this situation?" Then, think and speak from that millionaire
mindset.

19. Constantly keep telling yourself over and over that "It is real
easy for me to make money, as much money as I desire"

20. Keep telling yourself over and over every single day that "I
am a money magnet. I attract money like a magnet. I attract money quickly,
easily, effortlessly and having fun. Money is now coming to me from
every source and every direction in avalanches of abundance."

21. The Subconscious responds very well to very exact amounts
of money. Therefore, set a definite amount of money you want to attract
into your life. Keep telling yourself over and over that you are attracting
that amount quickly, easily, effortlessly and having FUN!

As you practice the steps mentioned above, your MONEY BLUEPRINT
will change and you will start attracting more and more money
into your life -- the EASY way.